Robin Hopkins, EGCM™, The Gestalt Garrison
Introduction: The Equine Gestalt Coaching Method™ (EGCM™) is an innovative, non-diagnostic approach that partners individuals with horses in the coaching experience. Rather than focusing on diagnosing or labeling psychological issues, the EGCM™ emphasizes the principles of Gestalt, which highlight the significance of being present in the moment. Horses, as co-active partners, are highly attuned to human emotional energy and respond in kind. This non-judgmental support from the equine not only fosters healing but also leads to immediate, profound, and lasting changes for those involved.
Significance: As a military veteran who explored various trauma-focused therapies, I found this method to be the most effective. The nonverbal bond I formed with the horse allowed me to lower my defenses, helping me to manage my emotions and begin confronting my challenges.
Purpose: To encourage the reader to experience an EGCM™ session for their betterment.
Setting and Participants: The session took place at Horses for Heroes in Santa Fe, New Mexico, a unique program designed to promote wellness and help veterans rebuild their skill sets. Our gathering was held in the round pen at the facility, where I participated with Nancy DeSantis, one of the program’s owners and a certified EGCM practitioner, and her equine partner and coach, Roper.
Capstone Description/Process: I had no experience with horses, but Nancy guided me through the basics, introducing me to horse handling, bridling procedures, equine safety, and light grooming. I led Roper into the round pen, where our session began. As Nancy remained outside, she asked me thought-provoking questions that encouraged deep reflection. Although I can’t recall her exact words, they struck a chord with me. Tears filled my eyes, and Roper stood beside me, sensing my unspoken emotions. It was as if he understood my sadness, confusion, and grief. Even when I struggled to find the right words, it didn’t matter; he seemed to know how to respond. I cried while he stayed close, offering silent support. It felt overwhelming yet strangely comforting at the same time. By the end of the session, I experienced a tranquility and inner peace that I hadn’t felt in ages.
Capstone Results/Impact: The results were truly transformative! After my time in active duty and a lengthy career in civilian law enforcement, I found myself feeling adrift. At the time of the session, I was grappling with chronic physical and emotional pain. However, in the presence of the horse, I realized I was no longer aware of the ailments that had dominated my daily life. This experience was incredibly moving; for the first time in years, I felt a sense of relief from my pain. Although my issues weren’t entirely resolved that day, it offered a glimpse into what was achievable. The horse played a crucial role in helping me let down my guard and connect with my emotions, marking a significant step toward reclaiming my life.
Capstone Evaluation: I evaluated the effectiveness of the EGC Method™ by reflecting on the personal transformation I underwent before and after the EGCM™ session. When I left the ranch, I felt a noticeable sense of calm and inner peace that was a stark contrast to how I felt when I first arrived.
Future Directions: The way forward is to hold on to the lessons Roper shared with me: it’s important to feel safe enough to let my guard down and to express my emotions. That’s where true healing begins.
Acknowledgments: First and foremost, I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to Melisa Pearce for creating the EGCM™ program and for generously sharing her life stories with us; her impact has undoubtedly saved more lives than she may ever realize. Additionally, this capstone project simply wouldn’t be possible without the support of Nancy, Rick, and Roper. I am deeply thankful for all they have done for me and continue to do for veterans and their families.
References:
Perls, F. (1969). Gestalt Therapy Verbatim. Gouldsboro, ME: The Gestalt Journal Press
Pearce, M. (2019). What the Heck is Gestalt? Elizabeth, Co, Touched by a Horse, Inc
Zinker, J. (1977). The Creative Process in Gestalt Therapy